Are you tired of dating apps? Looking for your special someone but haven’t found him or her yet? Don’t worry! After reading this article, you will know why it hasn’t worked out for you, and might even be motivated to find real love the old fashion way.
We all want to fall in love, live in everyday romance, and find our true life partner, but in this time and age, it seems almost impossible, especially on dating apps.
Dating apps are the typical app we go to when we wish to connect with someone, especially when we live in such modern times when connecting online has become such a big part of our daily lives.
6 Reasons Why Dating Apps Never Works For You
Over the years, I’ve been using dating apps, and it’s actually where I’ve met two of my long-term boyfriends. Even though both of my relationships ended, now that I’m single again—I realized that Tinder or any other dating apps for that matter is just not serving their purpose anymore. Going on tinder is like pick`n mix, you never know what you are going to get, and not everyone loves licorice. Well, I do, but you know what I mean.
Tinder, Happn, and all these other dating apps might be great for some, but I think I finally understand why it’s just not working for me anymore. Let’s face it, there are a lot of strange people out there.
Here are six reasons why dating online doesn’t work for you.
1. You love meeting people the old-fashioned way
Even though dating apps are a great initiative to help people connect online, if you are like me, you probably like to meet people the old-fashioned way. Either through friends, family, or colleagues. I’ve had my fair share of conversations on Tinder and Happn and there are some people who seem interesting, but most people on these apps are looking for one thing.
2. You are too busy focusing on your career and business
Have you received a cute message from someone intriguing on Tinder, but have not responded to them yet? It’s because you are too busy building your empire, and It’s nothing wrong with that. Don’t feel bad for not taking time out of your day to be more available and to have a dating life. It’s okay to put your love life aside and give your career all your energy!
3. You get ghosted by your dates
What I’ve discovered is that it’s very rare to come across people with the same interests and ambitions on these dating apps. Maybe you had a conversation or went on a date with someone, and then they suddenly ghosted you?
This is because you are a high-valuable woman and don’t need someone to take care of you because you take care of yourself. Your date probably noticed how driven and ambitious you are, and perhaps they felt insecure and that they can’t be on the same level as you—the solution? Ghosting. Ghosting. Ghosting.
4. You are not the Netflix and Chill type of girl
Even though you love binge-watching all of your favorite Netflix-series, you are not into the whole “Netflix and Chill” scenario with some hot date from Tinder. But you know what? That’s okay! Instead, you value nice long walks, cute coffee dates, or fancy drinks in your favorite rooftop bar on a Friday evening.
5. You forget to reply to people
Oh, we’ve all been there. You are speaking with someone on Tinder or Happn, and then you forget to reply to continue the conversation. Then many days later you remember that you had an interesting conversation with a potential date, and now you feel bad. You go back to the app to check, and he’s already unmatched you. This has happened to me a few times!
6. You are still single after going on several dates
If you are still single after using several dating apps and have been on a few dates, then it’s because the timing isn’t right! Don’t stress that you haven’t found Mr. right yet—she or he will come along when you at least expect it!
Being focused on building your business is never a bad thing, you are just busy doing you, girl! The right person will come when the timing is right!